Are you staying for the stuff? When a relationship is fizzling out, you know it. The intense chemistry you once had with your partner has shifted, and you spend more time not talking than talking. It isn't bad but it certainly isn't good either. If you and your mate are considering parting ways, it is a serious thing for both of you. The one ingredient that I believe you must have to make it work is collaboration. Have you ever stayed in a relationship just for the stuff ? For example, do you have a great bed? One woman said she stayed in her relationship just because of a Tempur-Pedic mattress. Do you belong to a country club? Do you own a second home in another state that would no longer be yours if you left the relationship? All of this stuff can tempt you to stay in the relationship even if you know it should be over. Is your happily-ever-after starting to look a little dim? When is it time to move on? It's important to real...
The dilemma I am a 48-year-old man and have been
with my partner for 28 years. We have a good and loving relationship
and few worries. Recently, however, I have started to use a chat room
where I enjoy chatting and flirting with other women. I have never done
this in real life and have never felt the need to. I am not sure this is
really correct behaviour but am having great trouble stopping – not
using the computer seems the only way. I have hinted at this to my
partner, but have not told her everything as I am both a bit ashamed and
do not want to hurt her unnecessarily. Please can you offer any advice
on how I can kick this habit.
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