Should I tell My Girlfriend That I’m Addicted To Flirting Online?

The dilemma I am a 48-year-old man and have been with my partner for 28 years. We have a good and loving relationship and few worries. Recently, however, I have started to use a chat room where I enjoy chatting and flirting with other women. I have never done this in real life and have never felt the need to. I am not sure this is really correct behaviour but am having great trouble stopping – not using the computer seems the only way. I have hinted at this to my partner, but have not told her everything as I am both a bit ashamed and do not want to hurt her unnecessarily. Please can you offer any advice on how I can kick this habit.

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