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One night stands have the potential to be a lot of fun. No stings attached, lots of passion and a great story to tell your BFF over brunch. But they can also be stressful. Stop worrying and start having fun with our tips. Don't over-think it One-night stands are meant to be frivolous fun. Sure, they might turn into something more, but they might not. Quit thinking about the details (whether or not he's going to invite you to stay for breakfast, if he'll call you later, etc.) and just enjoy the moment. Be safe This is probably the most important factor in your one-night stand success. Practicing safe sex is the only option - even when you're in the heat of passion. Don't leave it up to him either. Ask him if he has protection before you get to his place and if the answer is no, stop and pick some up. Safe sex is really the only kind to have. Don't expect too much Just because he's been whispering sweet nothings in your ear all night, do...

Every relationship can hit a lull in the bedroom from time to time. If your sex life has been anything but sizzling, it's time to heat things up with a little creativity and the element of surprise. Make his day! Need to rev things up in your relationship? Surprise your boyfriend or husband with unexpected sex. Office romp Meet him at the office wearing a trench coat and nothing underneath but sexy lingerie — or nothing at all. Lock his office door (or don't!) and have sex on the desk or floor. There's something hot about office sex, even with your hubby. Morning surprise Give him a good reason to get up in the morning. Wake him up with your mouth. No guy will turn down a morning blow job. Don't be lazy about it either — really get into it and don't make these common oral sex mistakes. Remember that oral sex shouldn't only be a prelude to intercourse. Do it all the way, and hopefully he'll return the favor...

Marriage Boundaries You probably got married as friends, but then found yourselves running into difficulty because you each had your own way of living and doing. You came from one family, and your partner came from another family, and those families were different. Your job as a couple is to create some boundaries and rules that will guide you in your marriage. But if you’ve never created any rules before, and you or your partner don’t like rules and boundaries, it won’t be an easy task. Who is the Leader? You are equal partners making decisions in marriage. Responsibilities must be divided up. You need policies, procedures, and rules in order to work cooperatively as well as independently. You will enjoy working together as you know each other better and gain confidence in each other’s decision-making ability. Developing faith and trust takes many months. Forging a new way of life from your different backgrounds takes time and patience. Remember, you are equa...

Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen. It's not negotiable. The more connected you are, the healthier you will be both physically and emotionally. The less connected you are, the more you are at risk. It is also true that the less love you have, the more depression you are likely to experience in your life. Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people don't love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. They also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love. There is a mythology in our culture that love just happens. As a result, the depressed often sit around passively waiting for someone to love them. But love doesn't work that way. To get love and keep love you have to go out and be active and learn a variety of...

If couples were paying any attention during the past few decades, they should be able to recite the one critical ingredient for a healthy relationship — communication. But the latest study shows that other skills may be almost as important for keeping couples happy. While expressing your needs and feelings in a positive way to your significant other is a good foundation for resolving conflicts and building a healthy relationship, these skills may not be as strong a predictor of couples’ happiness as experts once thought. In an Internet-based study involving 2,201 participants referred by couples counselors, scientists decided to test, head to head, seven “relationship competencies” that previous researchers and marital therapists found to be important in promoting happiness in romantic relationships. The idea was to rank the skills in order of importance to start building data on which aspects of relationships are most important to keeping them healthy. In addition to ...

So fragile, yet lovely; this is the most fitting definition to any relationship, be it marriage, romance or living together. No one is perfect in the world, at least when it comes to relationships. People often commit mistakes. It is a common rule referring the human behavior that men learn from mistakes. But at the same time, some mistakes, if committed may cause irreparable damage to relationships and life itself. It is always advisable to avoid relationship mistakes as relationships are union of two people; thus a mistake committed may affect both of them. Certain mistakes may lead to unfixable breakups and being sorry after committing a mistake may not help regaining the trust and love of the person. Let us see some of the most common mistakes people commit when they are in relationships. Losing Control If you want to sustain the relationship further or for the lifetime, be in control of yourself. Many people lose control easily, especially with the life partner. M...

So, you’d like to meet someone and have decided to go online. That’s a good move — proactive and forward-thinking. But be careful not to be lulled into habits that will undermine your online dating experience. Here are some tips to keep in mind as you peruse the seemingly endless stream of profiles from prospective partners. 1. Don’t go crazy over the pictures. On the Internet, it's easy to feel nitpicky and maintain high expectations. With apps like Tinder, you snap-judge users as if you were scrolling Amazon for the best pair of speakers. This sense of being in the driver’s seat, of choosing, can be appealing. It makes you feel powerful. Fight it. If what you want is a real connection — a relationship with a person you hope to love and who will love you — you will have to bring your most mature and empathetic self to the project. That means not saying, “Eh, she’s cute — but I prefer brunettes to blondes. Next!” You’d never behave this way in person, so do...

A 41 year old Kenyan living in Dar es salaam Tanzania was shot on Tuesday in what now seems to be a confused love triangle. Francis Shumila was shot three times by a man who claimed to be a fiancee of the the woman in the triangle, Christina Nandonewa. Francis died in hospital while undergoing treatment on Wednesday. Gabriel Munishi, the man behind the guy claimed that he and Christina were planning to get married and that even the family knew of their plans. On the other hand, Christina’s brother confirmed that indeed, Francis was “married” to Christina and that the family knew him as their “shemeji”. Munishi eventually shot himself after the shooting. Christiana was on her way to the airport to take a flight to Cyprus where she is studying when the whole incidence occurred. She was in the car with Francis and two other people and one of them died instantly. We shall be following up on this story and keep you on the loop.

Betrayed wife Rena Salmon waited months before serving her closest friend a cold and fatal dish of revenge after discovering she was having an affair with her cheating husband. Former Army crack shot Salmon drove to her love rival's beauty salon in her black Mercedes. Her husband's double-barrelled shotgun was in the back. She had loaded it that morning before dropping off their children at school. Salmon drove to Chiswick, west London, and parked the car. Then, carrying the weapon in the recognised Army position, she walked to the salon, where she blasted Lorna Stewart to death. Met through the school run Salmon, Miss Stewart and their respective husbands regularly socialised together in the picturesque "Aga Saga" village of Great Shefford in Berkshire. They met through the school run. But the two women could not have been more different. While their families apparently bonded, Miss Stewart was said to have hidden her dislike of her nearby neighbou...

Try these 10 ways to prevent infidelity in your relationship! Most men do not cheat because they don't love you anymore . Men cheat because they want more variety in their   sex   lives. Some complain of being bored. They want to feel adored by their partners; they want to asert their freedom; they are tired of disappointing you; they want a partner who places them at the center of their life, and they no longer feel like the priority in yours. Sometimes it's because you are speaking different   love   languages, and some men say it is a biological directive to procreate with as many women as possible for survival of the species. Whatever the reason, men have an innate need to feel respected and appreciated by their partners. It is most disconcerting for a man to realize he has disappointed his partner in some way. He wants to be her hero. So, here are 10 ways to prevent your man from cheating: 1.        Be willing to initiate s...

Ladies, ever wonder if you're dating a REAL MAN? Take this simple text to find out!!! A real man doesn't live with his parents or a couple annoying roommates who are constantly interrupting your love sessions -- a real man has his OWN little warm, private place where you can hole up together during the cold, lonely winter. Tired of this conversation? "What do you want to do?" "Ionknow, what do YOU want to do?" A real man won't waffle around and shrug -- when he sets his eyes on something he wants, he's just gonna go get it, no discussion, no second-guessing. A real man acts on i`nstinct and knows how to take charge . There's nothing worse than a needy, clingy man-child to quickly snuff the romance out of a once-promising relationship. A real man knows that you need your space and he needs his, so he'll abruptly sprint away from you if you get too close to him. You're pushing 30. Do you really still have the time and ...

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